Domestic abuse
The definition of domestic abuse states: any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass but is not limited to the following types of abuse:
- psychological, such as being isolated from friends or family, low self-esteem, blaming themselves for things (including their abuse), and humiliation in front of others
- physical, such as bruising or broken bones
- sexual
- financial, such as limited access to money and damage to the home or other property, such as cars
- emotional
Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.
Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.
This definition, which is not a legal definition, includes so called ‘honour’ based violence, female genital mutilation (FGM) and forced marriage, and is clear that victims are not confined to one gender or ethnic group.
Get domestic abuse help and support
In an emergency, if someone is immediate danger or your safety is threatened, due to domestic abuse call North Yorkshire Police on 999.
Independent Domestic Abuse Services (IDAS) provide support and advice to men and women across York and North Yorkshire; call the IDAS Helpline, telephone: 03000 110110. Live Chat is also available via the IDAS website.